let’s be real. what kind do y’all watch? who are your favorite ~stars? what are your favorite sites?
because i’m tired of looking at porn sites and seeing all this shit that caters ONLY to dudes. i feel like i spend more time looking for a decent porn than actually watching any. why is it so fucking hard to find porn that doesn’t involve an oiled up barbie doll with talons fucking a dude with shitty tribal tattoos? it disturbs me that some of these videos exist and sometimes they make my vag shrivel up and i end up being so disgusted that i get turned off, completely, and just abandon ship. i even have shitty luck looking thru “amateur” and “homemade” which sucks because that’s usually the hottest stuff (aside from lesbian porn, obv, when it’s not ridic and over the top/all about the male gaze).
i die a little inside knowing that dudes are into porn that is EXTREMELY misogynistic and solely about the male gaze (not to mention how racist the porn industry is). but then again it’s like OF FUCKING COURSE THEY ARE. because they just DO. NOT. CARE. esp because they’re all about visuals. it cracks me up knowing that the slightest sight of a bouncing ass and/or gigantic boob accompanied with fake orgasms can give them a semi. weak ass motherfuckers. i wish i could regurgitate some facts about how porn affects people’s perceptions of sex (specifically stuff like gail dines’s research) but there’s so much and it all just really reaffirms my anger and i can’t do that right now because i am too riled up haha. you guys should check it out.
anyway, i dont remember or care about where i was going with this, but i just want to state the obvious: porn is not real sex. and if you get your sex tips solely from porn, i feel bad 4 u, son.
Can you explain why Europeans were much more technologically advanced than the indigenous populations of Africa? I mean, these cultures hadn't even invented sewage systems, which is something the Romans were able to design and implement in 800-735 BC (a long fucking time before "the white man" colonized it)... I mean fuck, without "the white man", they would probably still be in the fucking bronze age.
I don’t really know what kind of history books bigots like you read.
The Great Libraries of Timbuktu? The steel metallurgy of the Haya? Dentistry? Caesarean section? Premature neonatal care? Mathematics, architecture, engineering?
I know it’s hard for a racist like you who imagines “technological advancement” to be some kind of end-all-be-all, or proof of some “inherent intelligence”. I know, I know. It’s hard to imagine, but Europeans have been drawing knowledge from everyone around them since the dawn of time. What did you think ended the Dark Ages?
All houses in the major cities of Harappa and Mohenjo−daro had access to water and drainage facilities. Waste water was directed to covered drains which lined the major streets directed to covered drains, which lined the major streets. Each home had its own private drinking well and its own private bathroom. The mains that carried wastewater to a cesspit were tall enough for people to walk through. Reservoirs, a central drainage system, fresh water pumped into the homes. Pools. Baths.
“I learned that just beneath the surface there’s another world, and still different worlds as you dig deeper. I knew it as a kid, but I couldn’t find the proof. It was just a kind of feeling. There is goodness in blue skies and flowers, but another force—a wild pain and decay—also accompanies everything.”—David Lynch (via strawberry063)
how do i always end up feeling this way about myself at the end of the day? every year i tell myself i will do better so i can do better. but this feeling always resurfaces. no matter how hard i try. no matter how much i distract myself. there is an underlying sense of sadness that just writhes around my insides and i dont know how to make it go away.